15 Ways To Meet Your Neighbors:
1. When going outside to get the mail from your mailbox, greet, wave or say hello to your neighbors.
2. Plan a neighborhood movie night.
3. Invite friends over to play card games, make crafts or outdoor games in the yard.
4. Plan a potluck dinner and have people bring their favorite recipe to share.
5. Suggest having a girl’s night out or a luncheon to get to know each other.
6. If you see a garage door open that is usually not open (at night)….knock on the door of that home or call them if you know their phone number. I am sure they will be thankful to know it was open.
7. Plan a “Clean up our street”….let your neighbors know about neighbors who could use a little help. They might be old and are hesitant to ask for help.
8. If you have kids plan play dates, join the local PTA or volunteer to coach a youth team. Consider attending a local church and volunteer for a committee.
9. If you feel comfortable, ask neighbors for family members’ phone numbers you can contact in case of an emergency. Let them know of any special talents/skills you have that might come in handy.
10. Have you ever thought about a block party? Suggest a park or area close by so people can exchange ideas about what you have available to help each other survive a disaster. Some people have no idea they should store water, food, etc.
11. Get a dog….it is wonderful to take a dog walking and meet neighbors.
12. If you make bread take a loaf to a neighbor. Exchange phone numbers so you have someone you can contact if help is needed in a real emergency or disaster.
13. Have a barbecue in the front yard and send notes around to neighbors to bring a dish and their own meat of choice. Chairs are welcome too!
14. Spend more time in the front yard, porch or balcony. Say hi to those who pass by on foot, riding their bike, etc.
15. Make a jar of jam and deliver to neighbors with your name and contact information on an attached tag. Indicate you are available in case they need help.
Knowing your neighbors is a great way to provide that extra level of security to your community. We rely on police to cruise the area looking for trouble spots. A well-informed neighborhood is one that provides that “crime watch” feel and actuality. Be aware of who is driving down the street. Alert neighbors if you think the door to door solicitor/salesperson may be casing the homes looking for that weak link.
If you notice papers piling up out front, grass growing longer than usual, weeds in the planter areas, etc., these may be signs of challenges in that home. Be vigilant and concerned. How better to show we live the mantra to “love thy neighbor”?
How do I approach new neighbors and strike-up a basic conversation?
MBK, it’s rather easy even if you consider yourself a shy person. We would try something like “Hi, I recently moved into the building and was curious what are the nicest evening clubs to check-out”.